In emotional intelligence, self-actualization is the willingness, the persistence and the effort that you put every day into something, it doesn’t have to be a huge step every day because know that life gets on the way, but at least a teeny-weeny effort, trying to improve yourself and engage in the pursuit your personal and professional goals, the pursuit of the things relevant and meaningful to you, something that will lead you to a more enjoyable life.  So, my friend, my question for is, what are you doing today that is going to make you better than yesterday?